TOOLSPut your ideas into practice
Ideas become realities through practice. These tools are designed to help you build richer, more connected, vibrant, and relevant communities.
An artful gatherer (and fighter!) is resourceful. These are tools to help you with group life. Think of this toolbox less as self-help and more as “group help.”
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Navigate conflict with curiosity, discernment, and the skills to make our way through.
Create or find inspiration to design relevant, specific rituals for big moments without everyone having to be the same.
Learn when and how to use technology to improve your gatherings, and when and how to ban it.
Popular Resources
Guide for Hosting Hybrid Gatherings
Five tips for the 3-in-1 meeting: in-person, virtual, and the moments where they collide.
10 Wedding Planning Questions
Start with "why are we getting married this way," and the rest opens up from there.
Virtual Gathering Guide
Seven steps to make your next video call genuinely effective, and maybe even enjoyable.
The New Rules of Gathering Guide
Five rules to rethink what your parties, events, and even workplace meetings could actually look like.
The Art of Gathering Online Course
TAKE THE COURSEAnyone has the ability to gather well with the right set of skills. Over six weeks, you'll learn the core lessons to plan a real gathering of your own.
Popular Conversations
The Mel Robbins Podcast: Small Ways to Make Your Life Fun & Exciting
Priya sits down with Mel Robbins to talk about why gatherings need a real purpose, how to make family time less tense, and small ways to bring more connection into your everyday life
The Art of Fighting: The Transforming Power of Conflict
NEW BOOKWe say we want community, but most of us were never taught the one skill that actually holds a group together: how to fight well. The Art of Fighting shows you how.
Out September 8, 2026