Grief & Transitions
TOOLS
Endings are a crucial part of life — whether a funeral, a job change, or a friendship running its course. Learn how to hold, acknowledge, and mark even (especially) in tender times.
ARTICLES
How to hold collective grief
How to gather around loss in a fractured time—6 ways to grieve together with care, creativity, and community.
Conversations & Podcasts
How to Attend Holiday Gatherings When A Loved One Is Gone w/ Priya Parker
Modern Loss’ Rebecca Soffer speaks with Priya Parker on creative ways to incorporate memories of loved ones into holiday gatherings.
A practical guide to feel less alone with Priya Parker.
Gathering in moments of grief with Priya Parker and Katherine May
On grief, care, and creating collective modern rituals to help hold the hard stuff together.
Water the garden (and other wisdom from Kate Bowler)
A Substack Live with Kate Bowler on six rituals for staying connected when life gets heavy.
DOWNLOADABLE RESOURCES
New Rules of Gathering Guide
A free guide to unlock new and creative ways to transform your next event. Learn how to infuse meaning and connection when planning for any occasion.
The Art of Fighting: The Transforming Power of Conflict
NEW BOOKWe say we want community, but most of us were never taught the one skill that actually holds a group together: how to fight well. The Art of Fighting shows you how.
Out September 8, 2026